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Old Nov 11, 2022, 12:27 PM
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I am still reeling from yesterday's events with my so-called college friend. He had no right acting the way he did - like a spoiled child who doesn't get their way and pouts. He is being passive aggressive by not replying to any of my texts, and I am 99.9999% certain he saw each one of them since he does not work.

What an a-hole! I am bitter now. Bitter that I even ran into him again or tried to be friends with him. And bitter that this is what I get once I am single again - a predator preying on my vulnerability. And, that's exactly how I view him and this situation. He preyed on me, by telling me that I need to feel safe around men again. He wanted to be that safe haven for me - and I thought AS A FRIEND ONLY. WTF. I would never pounce on a male who is just newly separated and going through the beginning stages of divorce - I would steer clear. So that is wy this is predatorial to me and opportunistic. He seized an opportunity to pounce.

I'm truly soured by this experience.
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