I’ve met some strange men in life but no one ever wanted to show me anything lol The strangest men I’ve met weren’t on dating sites. So I don’t think it matters where you meet them. Have high standards. Sometimes some luck helps too

I’ve met my husband on eharmony. I find eharmony to be the safest as if you say “no”, they won’t have access to your profile. I heard that people join but get no matches. I live in a large metro area so I had a lot of matches. Maybe in a rural area you have to expend geographical distance. I wanted a kind man preferably in a nurturing profession. I don’t care about looks or height or weight lol or anything else superficial. The only specifics I needed was “divorced or widowed with grown children with college degree and a full time job”. That’s the matches I got.

Eharmony isn’t cheap. But my husband likes to say “best money ever spent”