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Old Nov 14, 2022, 06:54 AM
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It’s understandable to feel sad and lonely. But as about activities companions it’s so important for women to have other social connections such as hobby groups, girl friends and other social outlets. Just because you are married it doesn’t mean you can’t go out and hang out with girlfriends and join various activities without your spouse. I find it healthier while married and certainly big help if you find yourself alone.

. I was in a relationship where I spent most of my free time with him mainly because he made it rather difficult for me to have my own life and I didn’t feel strong enough. I changed it all around after I left him and I’ll never live this way before. My husband is fully on board with it.

I don’t spend all my free time with my husband. Being attached to the hip is a dangerous place to be.

PS your husband wasn’t even a good companion at the concerts, he either wanted to leave early or wouldn’t get ready on time to go there or some women flirted with him at concerts. You can come and go as you please now and not worry
Thanks for this!
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