So, my husband's cat has developed feline herpes - I mentioned it before. He told me it was due to stress. Today, he tells me again that it's due to stress and that this is what the vet told him. I looked it up. Feline Herpes develops from contact with contaminated viral particles. Symptoms can return and be revived due to stress, but stress does not cause the infection. So, once again, my husband is twisting the truth in order to try and make me feel guilty for separating - yet another manipulation tactic.