Re the herpes - that kind of manipulation is just evil and moronic. Hes assuming you are too stupid to look it up. Or HE is! Either way, you dont want that in your life, do you? This REALLY reminds me of my first H and my family. Dont buy into another person's moronic world view. We were forced to buy in when we were children, but no more. Fill in that space with YOUR values. It will keep you company.