Unfortunately, along with alcoholism comes a tremendous amount of lack of self awareness.

Self awareness in NOT “I feel, I need, I
Want” or constantly faulting others. It’s not putting someone down for caring or offering to step in and help. It’s not putting someone down for needing
To grieve a loss and instead expecting them to focus on your needs.

Self awareness is actually paying attention to how you treat others. It’s not about having top billing or constant drama, drama, drama.