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Old Nov 16, 2022, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted by MuseumGhost View Post
In so many ways , though, you are on to him. He's out of your physical space. Soon, he will be out of your thoughts, I guarantee it. It will take a while and it will happen in stages. But it WILL happen.

You have done so well throughout this painful ordeal. You've found very positive and helpful support resources, and you're no longer in the dark about his true nature. These things are really very important!

I have every faith that you will be fine. Give it all some time.
Thank you @MuseumGhost! It helps SO much to hear positives!!!!!! Like, what I am doing well and right.. And, I think I am doing pretty well, for the most part, except for a stumble here and there.

And, today, I closed the chapter to that part of my life. He is now a mere chapter in my whole life's span. I mentally closed it for myself, and am opening a brand new chapter. He is of old. Now I am in the present, and he is no longer a part of my present OR my future. This concept I more fully embraced today for the 1st time - progress!!! I know I will fine, in the end, and far better off.

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