How I wish I, or anyone I know (or even knew) could have ever had, or could find - an excellent (or even ok) therapist in a certain location. I do not wish to discuss my location (some people know but I do not wish to get into a debate or argument which has happened a couple of times on another forum

That is not why I am here, or on any forum - nor am I here to ''whine'' or to ''lament''
Sorry about the anger, I had been too well trained by abusive parental units to keep SILENT even when being harshly or even cruelly criticised. NOW I know that is NOT HEALTHY.
Supportive replies only (sorry I'm not trying to be mean, I'm ''just too sensitive'' right now. And I used to have a friend who was a therapist (she died about 5 years ago) who said there isn't a ''cure'' for being ''too sensitive'' - and I'd rather be that way than some calculating, callous A hole (not about anyone here)
not about anyone on msf
not about the situation in the world