Yesterday's visit not arranged until around lunchtime. Partly because I was waiting to see if she called me.

One of problems is she's not eating properly. We have gone over this so many times. Have to keep saying food is fuel, your body needs it for cognitive as well as physical health. That's why she's dropping off to sleep around 4pm each day.

Anyway, we got a lot done. Changed her bed, including to winter duvet and warm sheet. Counted medication. Still trying to find best pillow. (she hates memory foam, not keen on feather either). She wants to go out and buy some new Christmas decorations.

Was conscious of us feeling our way with each other. It went better than expected, probably because my brother is there today to do do jobs. Not holding my breath....