Hey there Rose76.👋

I think, at the end of the day, it's okay to seek certain qualities in friends; qualities which bring you a sense of connection and support, definitely. To me, that important as well, it's important for a lot of people I'm sure of it. There could be a million and one reasons why a person might be more self focused than you are in that respect, so I wouldn't trouble myself too much looking for answers to that. We're just all different really, that's all I can come up with.

I guess I'm saying phase those ones out for your own well-being.🙏