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Originally Posted by divine1966
Text “I miss you” so much was a manipulation. I am not saying he’s not missing you but sending such texts is wrong on every level. Just confirms how sneaky and selfish he is
You can focus on other things now. Improving job prospects, finding new friends etc Being single for holidays could be a blessing. He either didn’t want to join you or needed to leave early or wasn’t feeling well. It doesn’t need to be lonely.
Go see your mom. How about your sister? Look for new friendships.
Two of my single girlfriends going to Thanksgiving dinner together joined by another single lady. Much more pleasant than dealing with difficult husbands. You don’t need to be lonely on holidays. You’d be surprised how many single never married, widowed, divorced women are out there. Or married with husbands working on holidays and no other family.. There are ways to enjoy your holidays without men. You can do it
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You're likely correct about the text.
And thanks, @
divine1966.
I will see my sister on Sat - we're having a family gathering then. My mom and I are spending Thanksgiving together - we're going out to eat. Christmas we'll all be together.
And you're right - my husband typically made the holidays more difficult. I don't know why that is.
I will meet new people in time... I am not up yet for joining social groups.