Two weeks ago my husband exploded and announced he wants a divorce. He will not consider any other options, such as a break or separation. It's like overnight he hates me. He has stonewalled all his resentments and feelings and now it is just awful times 10, because the divorce is awful enough. I will be left destitute. I have no money, no place to live except at Mom's house, no job or even job experience, no degree-- nothing. I will have to auction off most of my possessions, at least the big stuff cause there's nowhere to store them. We were together 16 years.

He wants NOTHING to do with me. I've made quite a few mistakes and I want to show him that I can and will improve on those things. I want to prove to him that we can do it! I know we can. Because I CANNOT and will not live without him. He was my best friend. My everything. And he was wonderful. He doesn't want to hear any of it. He said he is done and that is final.

But how can I do anything at all if he refuses to see me or talk to me? I currently am living in our house, and he's staying at a friend's until he gets his own place. HOW can I do it? This marriage means EVERYTHING to me!! Please Help.