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A little backstory... he and his ex were in a relationship for 5 years and broke up 6 weeks before he and I started dating (she was unfaithful to him as well).
If I had known this before we started dating (we met on match.com), I would've suggested we wait a while so he could have more time to heal from his past relationship, because I knew he would still be hurting from it, and he was.

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This is probably the reason he is still hanging onto any part of his ex-gf he can get (hence the email checking - seeing if she has any one new in her life)........ he is not over her and the emotions are still raw.

Please do not let your self get hurt IF he tries to return to HER - that is if she will have him back.....