Well if he is in a relationship, that’s all a moot point.

I am not saying you’ll always attract wrong men. But you are very vulnerable right now. You aren’t even divorced and are just few weeks separated from your husband.

You aren’t healed from your pain and this is the time when feeling attraction to some random man could be a very wrong thing. Well you can’t control feelings but contemplating acting on them now is not a good idea.

I am not saying you should never date or get to know guys you are attracted to. I do not believe you should be doing it NOW. I am also not saying you can never trust your feelings or date men you are attracted to. It’s not what I am saying. NOW is not the right time for all that. I don’t think you could trust your feelings or your attractions right NOW. Now is a bad time for all that unless you want to attract more drama to your life, I don’t think you do.