After a very bad argument my boyfriend shouted at me “I could have [had sex] with three different women at [yesterdays] concert but I had to come home to you”

I have a history of exes who’ve cheated on me and I never suspected him to be that type of guy. We’ve been together three years and he’s never once made me feel suspicious.

I immediately burst into tears and that was the end of the fight. But since then I’ve noticed something that makes me very uneasy.

It’s the opposite of telltale cheating signs. I was never compelled to go through his phone or dig through his things. I never had a reason and most importantly I don’t want to invade his privacy.

But I knew his phone passcode since we’ve been together was very long and consisted of letters only. It’s not like I tired to figure it out it just always took him a good minute to unlock his phone. He recently changed it to a five digit numerical code. Again I’m not looking to catch it I just noticed.

Almost strategically he is leaving his phone unlocked and walking away. It’s not like he was the type to be super secretive. He would never pull away if I glanced over but this is different. He will have his phone completely unlocked and go use the bathroom.

I feel like this is a set up. I refuse to touch his phone no matter how insecure I feel especially thinking back to what he said. He wants me to go through his phone. What he wants me to see is another thing. But I know he’s plotting. And I don’t know what to do about it.

This has been going about for a week now and it’s getting ridiculous. He’s leaving his phone out and unlocked while using the bathroom! No one goes to the bathroom without their phone!

Should I say something? And if so what? I really don’t want to snoop so that is not an option but what can I do to acknowledge this bizarre behavior?