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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul
People who use children or younger ones as emotional trashcans, they absolutely disgust me.They are cowards who target helpless children who cannot defend themselves. And we are groomed since childhood tobe that person who tolerates toxic people's crap.When more and more of the same happens,sometimes we tend to think it's kinda normal until we wake up and realize. I am glad that now you are aware and asking these questions. As an adult you have the power now to put a boundary if needed.I am doing the same.
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Yep I agree, hate it when adults use children or punish them because they’re in a bad mood and want to dump their toxic crap on them. It can even happen in schools, I can usually tell when a teacher is yelling at their kids just because their in a bad mood and just dumping their crap on the students. I can always spot the difference between a teacher getting mad for a legitimate reason and a teacher that’s on a power trip due to being in a bad mood, I’ve definitely gotten better at setting boundaries especially with people my own age and I’m glad you’re getting better too. I’m still struggling with much older people especially coworkers, usually I’ll just low key avoid them or ignore them if they try to tell me what to do when they’re not actually the boss.