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Nov 24, 2022, 02:34 PM
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@Windowlessroom14 Welcome to MSF My Support Forums. I am sorry things are not going smoothly with your boyfriend.
If you are content with how things are, what use is it to unlock his phone and possibly find something you do not want to know?
If things are not good in your mind, is finding out dirt about your boyfriend going to make things better or worse, especially if you get angry? I think my basic instinct is not to get angry no matter what happens. That has helped me heal some broken relationships sometimes or at least stopped me from escalating fights.
What if your boyfriend is just setting you up to catch you going through your phone? He sounds very angry. Why pull the tiger's tail and get him in a fury?
If this was happening to me I would start thinking about a safety plan or a backup plan or a "What if ..." in case things get bad with boyfriend. It never hurts to be prepared. What hurts me is to be totally blindsided without any idea what to do if something happens in a relationship.
Maybe things will even out with your boyfriend, but your intuition seems to say that things are getting strange and they are not behaving as usual.
Glad you joined the MSF community @CANDC
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