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Old Nov 25, 2022, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Windowlessroom14 View Post
The very next time he leaves his phone out in such a way, I will ask him right then and there, why is he doing this so much.

I’m still trying to unravel why he said that. I assure you all that there hasn’t been one mention of cheating or attempts at cheating in the three years we have been together up until this point.

That’s the entire point of this post. I am asking for help in processing and building a way to help me address this situation.
One thing to be aware of - just because cheating hasn't been brought up, doesn't mean that it is not a factor or consideration. He made a very odd comment about sex with other women - he either was wishing that he could have that night, or that he's thinking about it and wants to, imho. Why else make such a comment? It's also most arrogant of him to say.
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