Hi, sorry it didn't go as you imagined. Maybe he was having an off time due to his kid being sick. Or perhaps he's just not good making eye contact. I have noticed many people are very awkward with eye contact. Perhaps it was a sign he's just not right, you need eye contact(and communication) he cannot provide. Sounds like you have a wonderful furry companion by your side though. Those are precious moments.
Don't give up!