My neighbor does seem to think I'm weak. She is a strong person, herself, and a bit overbearing in her manner. She goes to a nearby gym a lot to work out and convinced me to join. But I don't go as faithfully as she does. So she says that I need "to do something" more than I'm doing. She tells me I spend too much time home alone by myself and that I need to get out more. She says, "You have to be strong." as though I'm some kind of wimp. She asks me why I'm not dating anyone. She says I keep my curtains drawn too much. Living in a first floor triplex apartment, I feel like I'm in a fish bowl being observed and judged. I guess that's her way of giving me attention, but it's of a negative kind.