Dear Jennylynn,
I agree with bptoo also, and that's a "woman's" point of view.
It is EXTREMELY important to have good communication between one another, I am going on 24 yrs. of marriage and believe me things can become very difficult if not next to impossible! So my advice is to have a good talk even though most men are not good at this, try it. Take care and keep in touch. Good luck
"darkeyes"