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Nov 29, 2022, 10:23 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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I don't know why I just now saw you post, Fuzzy  Anyway, I'm glad I have seen it.
It makes me so sad that the units treated you with such disregard. Clearly you were born with a shining soul that continues to sparkle, no matter what.
I have wondered, since I was a child, why so many people have to judge and bully, why many like to be mean. I have never found an exact answer. I do have some ideas...a need for power over others? A need to be in control?
Whatever the case it all equals a need to be the special one...the one who is at the top...the most important one, and the one who has the most control over others. So...that "judgmental and mean" person most likely was raised by units who were abusive. Some of us who were raised by such units turn out rotten, some turn out good (because we don't want to continue those abusive patterns).
As for doctors, well, you know my experience, in general, with many of them  (No, not all...but most, yes! They have HUGE egos and many times, not the knowledge to go with the ego.)
I absolutely feel I must walk on eggshells in life. I must always be a "nice girl." Don't get me wrong- I do care, I do enjoy being nice...but there are also times when I want to be heard, to assert my needs and to have those needs validated! 
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