I said to her you would rather me dead and then I said you would be happy that I died and she said that's not true I wouldn't be happy that my daughter died. I know why she's worried because I don't do much around the house I get that. Most of the time I feel like why bother it's not up to her standard anyway. Anyway I'm sick of the same situation. She's obviously not happy and would rather just blame me rather than look at herself. She's never been very good at self awareness.