Dear T,
Ugh.... I'm really not sure how to deal with this, though I should have known better than to think you were totally OK with what I shared. Sigh. But thanks for the reassurance as I was leaving. You seem to be putting the emphasis on this being a "you" thing rather than a "me" thing. I really hope the listserv people will tell you this is fairly common and OK. I do appreciate your letting me approve what you send them.

I guess we're at the center of the onion, aren't we?


Love,
LT