Awesome T and I had a few small ruptures that we worked through usually the next session. Art T and I had some huge ruptures. I thought we worked through them... I went back to see her after almost a year of not seeing her. We were able to talk and I thought things were OK... Then tree weeks ago I started working with a new primary T. We have SO much rapport already and I can be vulnerable with him and I feel safe with him in ways that I don't with art T. I don't trust art T... we even brought awesome T/her supervisor in to help. We haven't worked it out. Right now my priority is my work with the new T. Once finances allow I will try again to work things through with art T just to learn how to do it. I don't think I will ever work with her. BUT... I need to figure out how to work through this stuff. Can they be fully worked through? I think so, awesome T and I did but they were smaller ruptures and awesome T did most of the work.

So, like others have said, it takes as long as it takes.

I have also had enough bad T's to know that some times it isn't worth the work of working through... Only you can know if it is worth working through.