Oh I remember those years. Yes “the yuppies” lol. I am older than you, 66. When I had a phone on the wall and they still had phone booths. 😊

I think we go through stages, change is part biological and what each decade presents that is a milestone as we progress through life. And, there are different cultural and class influences.

Lots to consider when offering advice. I think people focus on escape and blame without listening and instead project how they live instead of considering years of investment they themselves never made.