I didn't like doing it but yes, needed to be done.

What I haven't mentioned is this happens not only when my aunt has been bossing her about but also neighbour, who she used to visit frequently, has phoned. All this woman does is moan about her health and her husband (despite him doing everything for her). Hardly ever asks my mother how she is. Have commented before that she's sapping the strength from her.

Have a parcel that needs to be delivered some time. Will also see what happens about her dental appointment next week.

Am trying to stay strong by remembering what my aunt said this time last year, after a long talk. "Now I know it's not all you".