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Old Dec 04, 2022, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Aurelius710 View Post
The Mindfulness of Breathing meditations I learned when I attended a Buddhist temple helped me immensely with negative thoughts. It's exactly what it says on the tin: One is supposed to focus on the breath and clear all else from your mind. I never could do it and it bugged me, until I realized it wasn't about clearing your mind at all, but returning to center. When I did that meditation and my thoughts strayed, I "looked" at my stray thoughts, accepted that they were there and turned my mental self back to center and the breath.

Took a lot of practice to get to that point!

Thank you for sharing your experience with that, Aurelius. It is such an amazingly liberating experience when we are able to let that happen.

I feel like I've gone backwards. When I was younger I clicked into the concept of meditation well. "Watching my thoughts"...I understood the idea and was often able to pull it off pretty well. Along about my late 40's I began to feel so anxious, so fearful. Doubted my beliefs, doubted everything. Then the awful seasonal depressions and by now managing my thoughts has become terribly challenging.
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