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Originally Posted by Marie123
My ex was like that. He "rained on my parade" anytime I was happy about something. He was jealous of everyone who loved me. I always said that even if he won the lottery, he would find a way to make it negative. Abusers are miserable people, and they need you to feel the same way.
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Yes, I am picking up on this fact about abusers. I mean, naturally he had to try and ruin my dad's bday by fighting with me, although that wasn't a happy day because my father has died and we were mourning on his bday. The point is, he had to make the day about himself and about how HE feels instead of allowing me to mourn and instead of being sympathetic.
He has tried to ruin many other happy occasions for me: holidays and bdays.
I have read that they do this - they all do this.