I forgot to mention: the other day when my husband was texting, he threw our marriage vows in my face: "in sickness and in health" he wrote and "in good times and bad times", in an effort to what, GUILT me into being with him???? And I love how he's using our vows to try and manipulate me, when he's the one who broke our vows in the first place by cheating!!!!

He also claimed he would never "abandon" me if we got back together. Yeah right. He just wants to be the one in control. He can't stand that I am leaving him, and not the other way around! I know full well that IF we DID get back together, he WOULD abandon me and he would be the one to discard me because that's what he wants - FULL CONTROL. He can't stand the fact that I've left him and that he no longer has any control over the relationship.