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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I haven't made any progress with not contacting ex-T on our anniversary. It's coming up again in March...9 years! I'd like to think that I can finally put her behind me. I've made huge improvements since, and I've had two good Ts since too. I don't know what good it's doing me to write her. I don't put a return address, so she can't respond. I can't control her, or make her feel anything. I got all the closure I'm ever going to get. And yet something in me just wants to remind her that I still exist. ...Something to work through L with.
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After my recent experience with my ex-therapist, I can really relate to the writing of such letters. I can imagine myself doing it and also not being clear why, beyond responding to an impulse to be vital in some way. Or rather, to not be discarded. Yes, an interesting piece of work for you to do with L.