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Originally Posted by eskielover
I live so totally in the now (present) & there was nothing in my past I would even want to relive or go back to .
I miss my doggies & my soulmate Leo doggie but never get into a nostalgic mode cause I am too busy focusing on my now life & future things that excite me.
Think the main reason of not though is that nothing in my past was without issues or stresses that I would never want to go back to & I can never see only the good that would make me be nostalgic. I see people & places for ALL they were, not just tge good. That makes it a huge NO. Love to experience my life as it unfolds. No time to dwell in sadness except at the time losses occur.
Maybe my response is not normal but it works well for my life
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Oh I agree with you and there were way more bad times than good times for me. I completely understand where you're coming from and that is quite normal. For me I just get nostalgic for the few good times that did exist which mostly took place after high school. I would happily redo my college career but I wouldn't want to go back to high school or before then like some people would and also most of my nostalgia comes from missing those who are no longer around but even then that's not many people.