Dear T,
I really want to know examples of how I "battered" you, in addition to the obvious recent one with the billing. And maybe a couple things I can think of from like 3 years ago or more, but it seems odd you'd reference those now? Part of me wants to ask you, but I'm not sure I want to know. As it could make me feel like I can't share, say, "This thing you said upset me" without thinking you'll feel I'm battering you. If that's the sort of thing you mean. Which, if that's battering to you? Maybe you shouldn't be a T! (OK, *that's* battering, but I'd never actually say that to you.)

Love,
LT