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Old Dec 09, 2022, 02:49 PM
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I love clothes and have lots of them and I do not work from home at all.
Having said that I’d not want anyone to buy me clothes because I have my own style and my own stores I prefer. Liking clothes and other stuff doesn’t mean I want men to buy me stuff. No thanks. I can but my own stiff

I’d tell the guy in no uncertain terms that I do not want him to buy me clothes. If he ends up still buying you clothes then he’s control freak. If he still buys it after you said no, he likely wants to buy it because he doesn’t like how you dress and wants you to change. I’d not tell him that you have simple tastes. I’d tell him that you simply do not want him to buy you clothes. End of story.

I love to shop but it doesn’t mean I want a guy buying me clothes. My husband pays attention to what I or other females in our family say or look at and then buys things in that category or he asks. He knows better not to buy me clothes (unless it’s a pair of yoga pants he sees in Costco grocery shopping).

I like nice bras (big chested so have to buy expensive bras), and like nice underwear but I don’t know why they must match? Like color? Jeez. It’s nice if they sometimes match but who cares? Ok now. I’ve been with quite a few men and no one ever mentioned that they don’t match. This guy is really vain. Is he a good boyfriend otherwise?
Thanks for this!
*Beth*, ArmorPlate108