I've found that when I'm not feeling love, it's because I'm angry. When my husband and I went to a marriage counselor and learned to resolve our issues, we became much closer.

Not feeling love or sexual attraction is not a sign of a bad match. It is a sign that there are more issues to be resolved. A counselor can help your wife see from a more mature perspective. The counselor will fight for the marriage.

I'm glad you are here. I hope the power and compassion of our group will help you find alternatives and a measure of peace.