((((((((((((( agony ))))))))))))))) I hear your pain.....and I'm sorry you are going through this.

I want to say that I think Lenny is right on the money with his post. The kids really don't have a say in what is going on right now. They may be going along with Dad because well, that's where their allegience lies and they are with him. But it's true, they know who was there for them when they needed someone...and even if they don't think about that right now, they will in the future.

Great idea about sending them a note to let them know you care.

Hope things let up as this process moves along.


sabby