Honestly even if it was serious dating.., heck I am married and my husband better not be making comments about my underwear not matching

I dated a controlling guy years ago snd he criticized my clothes. I like bright colors. He was doing it jokingly but it didn’t feel like a joke. I promised myself to not ever date such guys. And I wear whatever colors I want

Teasing each other is fine. But this doesn’t sound like teasing