Yes, I feel like the boundary here is "You should have known I'd be uncomfortable with this." But he's told me before that something might make him uncomfortable, but it's still OK to talk about it. Even he said yesterday, early in the session, how the love thing is like a big matzoh ball in the room. Like it's something hanging out there that needs to be talked about.

I'm pretty sure he was making a Seinfeld reference, to an ep where George said "I love you" to a woman he was dating, and she didn't say anything back. (I think she said, "I'm hungry, let's get something to eat.") He told Jerry, who said, "That's a big matzoh ball hanging out there!" Then George thought maybe she hadn't heard him because she said she has hearing loss on the side where he was sitting. He told her again later, and she said, "I know, I heard you the first time."

Oh, great, I'm George Costanza....