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Originally Posted by unaluna
No, but you have thought of ten different ways he could respond?
Maybe hes thinking, this subject doesnt just come up by itself. Maybe there is something more to it. If he feels you are in denial, he is not going to take you saying "no im not" at face value.
Do you want to win this argument with him (or me), or do you want to figure out what is behind it and then move on?
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I want to figure out what's behind it and then move on. But I want him to work with me to figure out what's behind it, if at all possible, to process that with him. In fact, I was just now typing up notes for next session stating basically exactly that. And wanting to ask if he feels like he can process it with me or if I need to see someone else (for a bit or for good) to accomplish that.