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Originally Posted by stopdog
You would be wrong on your assumption about me. I do think therapy encourages moaning and so on - it is okay with me if you disagree -it is even okay with me if you find it useful. I didn't but I don't insist that everyone agree with me or do it my way. I also think people do things one way until they are ready to do them another way - not necessarily consciously. In the end, I was just giving my take - I don't insist I am correct about it - all I have is one tiny slice of the situation - just like everyone else here.
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Perhaps I misunderstood your tone. It sounded a bit shaming, judgmental and insensitive of others' pain, particularly for a support forum. I think it's wonderful that you are able to do your own work and stay psychologically healthy without the help of a therapist. I'm envious of that and working towards that goal.
In the meantime, I do come here to read about the diverse experiences of others in therapy. I appreciate your perspective, but I felt your tone was less than supportive.