If you have found something to be so concerned about you can't do this >>
Even with your t and md working so closely together they can't actually share this sort of info can they? But even if they do, would that take the pressure off you to have to bring it up with your doc? (although in the process you will probably panic all the more til your md appt
is there anything you think would help you to feel in control? If you needed to stop the exam would your doc stop straight away? I guess that is the biggest thing, and as you said you ARE an adult who can say no, which does give you the power and control.

p.s. I'm guessing that as we have so few ppl here (like...about 4million ) it is much easier to do national medical recalls...