its been much less contact with estranged husband. i now hear from him so little that i even hear from his family more often than him. part of me thinks its good to keep up relationships with them, part of me thinks they are toxic too and i should avoid them. theyre cut from the same cloth. and they either say something to annoy me, or tell me about something that annoys me.

he's in toxic tangles with his parents. 0r, maybe it will be different with them this time..
not my business.

i have to be okay with him sabotaging himself. he had to take a couple days off work-why? was it because he talked to his dad and spun out? could have been anything else, so i wont speculate. maybe he got fired. he didnt tell me the reason, so i figure he wasnt sick or he wouldve said so.

i heard he apologized to his dad. ridiculous. sad. maybe his dad deserves (definitely didnt earn) forgiveness, but to apologize to his dad? whatever.

again. not my business.