I haven't read all this thread (in fact I've hardly read any of it yet, have not been around much... so please forgive the reply ''only'' sending hugs. Those who know me know I often have plenty to say

I do not fit into the box the Foul Family of Origin (and probably some foul others) tried to put me into

'very quiet person and a bad person''

NOPE NO NO NO

Much love to Beth and to all