Two guys might just be rude. Many people are rude. Do you think they were rude because you are a woman or just plain rude? Would they be just as rude if you were a man?

Not having recent experience could mean she implies you are old but could just literally meaning you have no recent experience. You could be 30 and have no recent experience

They could be biased of course. I’d not quit a job over it. I do understand it’s hard. But some things you can’t change because you have to eat. So you must stick around. Life is tough.