No, because he lost his mother and fought with me for over a month, I should have compassion and understanding vs. condemning him for fighting with me the whole time.

Now he's claiming that he was mentally unstable during that time period, right before his mother died, before he flew out to California to see her and during the time he was fighting with me. That's now his claim - he was unwell, so he fought with me.

I told him that he fought with me every single week and for hours on end, ruining the day's plans and almost the whole night's plans. I told him that his behavior and treatment of me was unacceptable.

Don't ask me why I decided to engage in this argument. That's why I finally blocked him.

And now, because I blocked his phone, he has sent 2 emails telling me he is suicidal.

Such manipulation! I love how it's "you have no compassion", when he treated me like CRAP.