You're welcome to go to my in-laws' in my place on Christmas Eve!

My stepmother, who does not have any kids of her own (married my father-in-law like 15 years ago) and who does not have any training in education, developmental psychology, or special ed and no known experience with autistic kids beyond my D, sent an email to my H this morning detailing how we should be handling my D, how my mother-in-law, who watches her weekly, is doing it wrong. How if you just follow these simple guidelines, she will have no trouble with transitions! (SMIL/FIL watch D maybe once every couple months.)

Apparently, she has also been exchanging emails with my MIL about this topic. And they'll all be there on Christmas Eve! So you are welcome to come enjoy that in my place or attend along with me and watch the drama.