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Originally Posted by ArtieTheSequal
I mean even though I believe that it's our therapy and we get to talk about whatever we need/want to talk about in the one place we shouldn't have to censor ourselves - I also like how Dr T handled it overall in talking about how the feelings were fine but he was using it as a teaching moment or whatever, and LT I'm so glad it led you to some understanding (although painful, that part sucks) and that it may be leading to a breakthrough for you. I'm really proud of you for sticking with/working through this stuff.
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Thanks, Artie. It does seem to have led to some new understanding,
And it does seem like the main issue for him was my pushing him on his feelings, not sharing my own. He even said he wasn't that bothered by my raising my voice to him in anger at the end of the one session (I called it "yelling," but he said later it was more raising my voice than yelling).