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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
It's interesting that Dr. T (or "Mr. T"--
i couldnt remember his name!
Which is also what happened way back with the standing, as you mention. Where he could have been like, "Wow, what is going on for LT here, why is this such a big deal for her? Is this tied to something else?" Instead of "I will NOT stand, and that's that!"
And I'm very sorry you're in pain again. Maybe consider making a doctor's appointment?
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Thanks. Im waiting for the med to wear off. Also my dr said 6 weeks as he thought it waz a muscle strain. Jerk. I think its my gallbladder.
Re the standing: my iterations with my t were, as i have mentioned before, about my asking him to stop by my apartment on his way to/from the airport on vacations. Which is similar to asking your t to stand, no? "I want you to do this." We NEVER got into a yes/no argument about it, though. It waz never a battle of the wills. I never felt entitled to it.
Why did it become a "big deal" for you? Why do you keep trying to win arguments with him? How do these things keep turning into arguments? Who else tells you "no", that you want dr t to compensate you for that by giving in? What is the right question to ask here?!