Her threatening divorce is her way of abusing you so she feels in control. She uses the same tactic with her sons who do not want her in their lives. As soon as she sees a way to leave you she will. She doesn’t care about you or her two sons.

She liked being away and probably her friend is believing her BS and poor me and advising her on how to get as much as she can from you so she can leave you. She is setting up her new life right under your nose.

She keeps telling you she doesn’t love you and wants to divorce you. BELIEVE HER!