The toxic behavior your wife is choosing to engage in being cheered on by these other women has been causing her children to become ill. Now you know this is not a case of you encouraging them but instead they are genuinely suffering and are reaching out for help in the only way they know how.

Your wife came home to you and your sons freshly determined to announce her desire to walk away from her family. Your children had a good time with you and then they had to witness their mother go up one side of you and down the other telling you that you are a failure. And they KNOW that’s not true. It’s making them sick RD.

It may be a good idea for your youngest son to sit with the guidance counselor at school and share his concerns and see if she can help with finding help for you that you can afford. You can no longer ignore this. This counselor may have resources to help you and your sons that you don’t know about.

This woman that got upset and shared with you that these individuals guiding your wife are toxic is a red flag.